Thinking Ahead...

Currently ReadingWhat Every Man Wants in a Woman; What Every Woman Wants in a ManBy John Hagee, Diana Hagee, J. Charles and Sandra Burrsee related

I know this book may seem like a funny read for someone who isn't even married yet, but the truth is Marriage is definitley something that God has planned for me (and my dad had it on his nightside table so I picked it up). but here's the thing... God really wants to help me to make it perfect, from the time HE choses to show my man to me to the day both of us die. I'm thinking that if this is going to be one of the biggest decisions of my life outside of making God number one, than I should at least start preparing for it now. Then I will first of all know what to look for in a Guy and then what to expect once I've chosen the right one.
So far I've learned that men and women actually, chemically think very differently. I always just thought that men could think more clearly (less emotionally) than us girls, because our clear thinking gets rudely interupted every month by an incontrolable force of hormones and emotion, but as it turns out, we really do just think emotionally anyway. Men think Logically. I guess that's why they're the Leaders of our families and our Governments and girls aren't. The country would be so overrun by emotion that nothing would ever get done in a crisis.
The other thing I've learned is that Men truly do think about sex 95 persent of the time. So, our job as wives are to think about their needs before our own... especially in that area, because Lord knows that if were thinking for ourselves we'll probably say no to that invitation at least 50 percent of the time.
So, I need to chose a Godly leader who is very attentive to my needs, as I will be his, patient and physically perfect (hehe, JK, well a girls gotta have her standards, maybe that's one of the reasons I'm not married yet... anyway...) because once I've picked him, he is the leader, to the day we die. The hardest part for me (the part I can't quite wrap my head around yet) is how we are supposed to make a beautiful symphony of a life when both of our brains are pulling in two different directions. I'm not even sure it is possible for my brain to think logically at all, much less, to try to do it so that I can please my husband or see where he's comming from. I guess I'll learn that in chapter 3:) or maybe God will show me how when I actually have to learn (when I meet my man). But one thing is made clear in this book (written by a couple who have been married many happy years) and that is that MEN can't and shouldn't be forced to change.... it ain't gonna happen, no matter how hard you try girls, and the same goes for women. So pick em' right the first time, because for christians it's the only time!
Who knows! For right now, I'm learning new things and growing and chillin' and waiting. God you have complete control... PLEASE MAKE HIM HOT!! LOL!! hehe!! The shallowness shines thru once in a while. Hey, I'm just putting in my order ;)